Parenting Diabetes

This is the first post of Diabetes Blog Week. The topic for today is “Admiring Our Differences,” which is explained as follows:

We are all diabetes bloggers, but we come from many different perspectives. Last year, Diabetes Blog Week opened my eyes to all of the different kinds of blogs (and bloggers) out there – type 1s, type 2s, LADAs, parents of kids with diabetes, spouses of adults with diabetes and so on. Today let’s talk about how great it is to learn from the perspectives of those unlike us! Have you learned new things from your type 2 friends? Are D-Parents your heroes? Do LADA blogs give you insight to another diagnosis story? Do people with type 1 who’ve lived well with diabetes since childhood give you hope? Pick a type of blogger who is different from you and tell us why they inspire you – why you admire them – why it’s great that we are all the same but different!!

Thanks to my position here at the American Diabetes Association, I have been introduced to many different types of people affected by diabetes. It is amazing how there are so many different perspectives on one disease – but – it is inspiring at the same time. Their outlooks, while different, all revolve around the same basic theme – thriving with diabetes.

If I have to single out a group whose stories really open my eyes, however, it would be the parents of children with diabetes. When we are children, we look to our parents for answers and fairness. But there is no fairness or simple answer when it comes to diabetes.

Why me?
Why so high?
Why so low?
Why another injection?
Why this machine?
Why do I have to bleed?
Why do I have to eat?
Why can’t I eat?
Why do I have to wake up now?

Now, I’m sure that every child asks some of those questions at some point, but I would imagine the burden of answering those questions to be a bit heavier when it comes to a chronic disease like diabetes.

I’ve seen it in the stories shared on and in countless parent blogs. Beyond that, I’ve seen parents connecting with one another through blogs and social networks, offering support and advice, but always understanding that each child and each child’s diabetes is different.

Parents of kids with diabetes amaze me. They can’t feel symptoms, but they do manage diabetes, advocate for the rights of their children in schools, then work to help their child transition to self-management as an adult.

It may be clear to you that I am not a parent and that I have only imaged the questions that kids with diabetes ask. So I’m curious – what is the hardest diabetes related question you’ve had to answer?

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5 Responses to Parenting Diabetes

  1. Mike Hoskins says:

    As always, this is a great post Dayle! Thank you for sharing it and directing some deserving attention to those superhero D-Moms and D-Dads. We are all part of such a great and ever-growing community online and offline, and it’s great to hear so many different perspectives that represent our real life diversity! Thank you for sharing this.

  2. Meri says:

    Thank you for this post, I so feel the love! It is a two way street! As a parent it is crazy to think of my boys advocating for themselves, taking care of themselves. I know they will fly one day, and it will be in the tail wind of bloggers like you!

  3. George says:

    D-Parents are the most awesome Type Awesomes out there for sure!

    • Sherlyn says:

      Diabetes could be the trigger of your erectile dysfunction. The elevated blood glucose levels that cause blood vessel and nerve harm in other parts of the body can also result in copimlcations in blood flow and nerve damage to the penis.

  4. thank you.

    as for the list of D-related questions – you have most of them covered.

    The hardest one for me was when my son was diagnosed a few months ago. His big sister has diabetes, we don’t. He promptly asked my husband “Daddy did you have diabetes when you was 5? When does it stop?” He was thinking that it was a part of growing up. Had me in buckets that did.

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